Moizullah Tariq Malik comments : Our part of the world considered marriage a permanent relationship and despite various odds people still have keep this relationship intact. I do agree with you that giving this relationship a commercial touch is no less than a real bad taste.
You wrote what most of us feel but may not have inclination to write on it.
Thanks for taking the lead..........my regards
Aditi Dhaon comments : I agree with you completely. I grew up in USA, but have gone through the Indian process of finding a groom. Believe me, it is not always a pleasant process because it is not easy to find a match in a day's time or in a few meetings, let alone the fact of doing it on TV in front of millions of people. Really, how much do you actually know about a person on TV before deciding if he or she is perfect marriage material or not? As we believe in, marriage is a life long decision, which should be made only after a hard and thought out process. It's one decision which will either bring sunshine to you every morning or haunt you for the rest of your life. My first mistake was to agree for marriage after meeting the person only once. At that age and time, he seemed to be the perfect match and some things about him were too good to be true, but it was later I discovered that this decision was wrong and should've been made only after knowing someone completely. It's not easy to know a person completely, but you should know things about a person, which may bother you later at some point in time. Although, I was saved from marriage at that time, but it was those few things I never inquired about, which landed me in the position I am in today. I have nothing against Kahin Na Kahin Koi Hai or such shows, but to tell you the truth, television is for entertainment and not for making life's most critical decisions. Only the participants will suffer the consequences of the after effects and no one else. Everyone else is getting what they want; money, fame and entertainment.
Thank you....
Kris comments : This is a really good article and I agree with it...
Sunanda Vashisht comments : Dear all Thanks for appreciating the article. I agree with aditi completely that to find a suitable boy or girl is definitely an uphill task. Television is only undermining the sanctity of this sacred institution. A marriage can only be a sacred institution if both people involved in the wedlock understand that. Otherwise the relationship has no importance and has to be dragged on the shoulders like a worn out coat which a lot of people even in today's age and time are doing. I would love to hear more on this issue. thanks sunanda
Shiv Kumar comments : To Sunanda, O beauty of Kahsmir, I am defeated by your beauty. If you are still unmarried, I would like to propose you Miss.
You wrote people are discovering new ways of matchmaking, and see I had found one..
Jagjeet Kumar Bawa comments : i have a idea for lovers to get marride with their lovers .if their parents do not allow,and you realy want to get marrid your lover then contect me .jagjeetkumarbawa@yahoo.com
